Finally Prince Charles got married with his love of his life, Camilla Parker Bowles. After 30 long years of waiting, they are stil able to pick up where they firs begin, ain’t this somehow in a way romantic?
As the saying goes, first love is always the deepest uh? i used to believe that once you are in love, it must be the right person. i believe that it is possible to achieve that as i did see example like that before. i have a friend whose parents are close to my family, his parents are childhood sweetheart just like in the fairy tales. well, some people tried to wait for the right person and not knowing that the right person might have left long before they realize, while some people decided to stop waiting when love hit them even though they might not be his or her perfect gal or guy. i mean, it’s rather difficult to stop yourself from falling in love once there’s connection between both of you.
it’s rather self contradicting which choice should you choose. should you be going for the person that’s in front of you or should you be waiting for the right person? the difficult part is, how do you know whether he or she is the right person to you? i mean, you could trust a person so much, love someone more than loving yourself, but still, you might be betrayed despite of sacrifices were made for them. or else, where comes all the divorce and adultry uh? more so there’s no specific label or sign telling you that :” hey, here’s the right guy/right gal for you.”
could first love really be the last love that’s gona last forever? i doubt it now. i guess even one party could make sure that he or she is loyal and could shower love unconditionally, it might not be possible. well, love is the affection towards another person, which is to say that it involves 2 party. it’s not enough if there’s just one person working hard sacrificing everything. things wont work that way, i’m pretty sure. i mean love is like a partnership, could partnership worked if there’s no equal efforts being poured into a relationship? perhaps for sometime it might work, but soon after time passed, the sense of not being treated fairly will messed with your emotion. you will somehow forget about why in the first place you sacrificed.
i guess what i mentioned above is yet just another stale and lame stuff to be read. anyway, i’m tired. signin off…
I guess if its real love, you would know it. When your eyes meet, its like you know the person so well, its like soul’s depth. Your every fibre breathes for that person but you’re still functional. The mention of the person drives you nuts on the inside. It’s not infatuation because the person’s looks doesn’t matter and ur willing to sacrifice just for him/her. that’s real love i guess.
Btw, I love Canon cameras too. Pro-1 is my dream cam currently but I m doing to get a point-and-shoot first, a Sony Cybershot.
Comment by Lydia — April 12, 2005 @ 15:10
Lydia : but why is there so many people suffering from betrayal or being with the wrong person?
Canon rocks, was supposed to go check out my 350d, however it’s out of stock.
Comment by ~shadow~ — April 12, 2005 @ 23:20